Take another look at Empress. Take particular notice of the fish-net pantyhose. Follow it all the way up. Stop there! Imagine the rest – what lies beyond the pantyhose, that is. Now, how can a woman keep all that for another woman, in the name of lesbianism and same-sex relationship?
Luckily, for all the men out there, Empress is not such a woman. She would have none of that. She prefers men. But don’t begin to get funny ideas. She’s not searching.
But that is one reality she’s been severally called upon, by the rumour mill, to explain.
For “controversial” is one adjective that aptly describes Empress Njamah’s rise to movie stardom. Every step of the sexy eyeball’s march through moviedom seems to have been trailed by one controversy or the other. One redhead swears on his mother’s grave that Empress is a lesbian. Another says she’s a kleptomaniac while yet another says she dates many men at the same time – not by way of three-in-bed, just double (or is it multiple?) dating.
But Empress says all the lesbian stuff is just the figment of some jobless guy’s not-so-rich imagination. “It is a product of warped minds”, she assured Saturday Sun.
“It is not only that I am a lesbian, they said I am multiple men person and a kleptomaniac. But it is not true”, she says.
“Lesbianism is one terrible thing in the bible that God does not like. I am somebody who is close to God. I don’t joke with my Sundays and Wednesdays. Talking about multiple men, they can not call me a lesbian and still say I am multi-men. So they don’t know what they are talking about. I can’t be a lesbian and still talk about multi men in my life. I am one person that doesn’t have much time for men”.
As for the kleptomania bit, she says there is a story to it. “It happened when I went with a friend of mine to the Airport and he gave his jacket to the gate man to hold for him. When he came back, he wore the jacket and travelled to United Kingdom. When he got there money got missing from his jacket and he was asked who he gave the jacket to, and because I was with him his secretary never liked me and thought it was the best time to really blackmail me… Trust Nigerians, the story just spread.
But I am saying I know myself and that I am not lesbian, a kleptomaniac or multi-men kind of person”, she restated bitterly.
Acting runs in my family
Beside all this distractions however, Empress is one hell of a star. And she’s been around a little while now. The dark-skinned, stary-eyed, all-feminine bomb exploded unto the scene in 1995 and since then has been able to hold her head high in the industry. Of course whatever she lacks, she can always dig dip into her veins to bring out from the genes - for acting runs in the family. Two of her siblings were already in the profession before her.
“We are five in number. Three of us are into acting. My brothers were into it before me. I went out with my brothers one day to a rehearsal in Surulere and the girl that was supposed to play a particular role did not come and I was asked to stand in for her. After, the director called me and asked if I was interested in acting, I said yes and got the role. But my father never wanted me to be an actress because of the negative things one get to hear about actresses. But when he saw one of my movies, he said I should just give it a try. But my mother has always been there for me”.
An actress’s lifestyle
There is a stigma that goes with actresses in Nigeria that unnerves Empress: the Imo state-born actress is not happy with the belief that actresses are promiscuous. And she is ready to do battle on this turf. “It depends on the factor you are looking at it. I believe, as an actress you have every right to marry or date an actor. It happens everywhere, hospitals, banks even in your (The Sun) office. It’s just that we are in the limelight and people tend to say bad things about us. If an actress wants to go out with a colleague, I believe there is no problem to it. One has to follow his or her heart in this”.
Sleeping to the top
“I hear a lot of cases of actresses sleeping with a director in order to get a role, but I always say that if you don’t have it there is nothing you can do about it. If you want to cheapen yourself to get a role and it came out in the movie with you not doing well, then you have yourself to blame. Acting is not something you jump into, it’s something that lots of people see and commend your worth and say ‘yes she is doing well’. But you can not put a square peg in a round hole”.
So has Empress slept with a director for a role she desperately wanted?, you ask.
“ I am not supposed to be answering that question. Nobody you actually ask that question would ever tell you ‘yes’, she has done it before, but I can boldly say I’ ve not done it before”.
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